gungrave: Yeah, I know. I'm just saying that they've both "copied" eachother at one point in time or another, but I don't really consider either series to be a copy of the other. No more than I would consider Bugs Bunny a copy of Mickey Mouse.

As for the topic of this thread, I want to point out one thing that bothers me that I didn't mention in my original post:
The UK Defense Secretary Dr. Liam Fox criticized the game in advance of its release stating that it was "shocking that someone would think it acceptable to recreate the acts of the Taliban against British soldiers. At the hands of the Taliban, children have lost fathers and wives have lost husbands. It's hard to believe any citizen of our country would wish to buy such a thoroughly un-British game. I would urge retailers to show their support for our armed forces and ban this tasteless product."
I've heard similar arguments against these types of games before, but these people always seem to take the side that can best be described as "our side getting hurt at all is a crime against the soldiers and family affected on this side". Basically, if you're going to talk about how it's tastless to fight against fictional digital soldiers that so happen to represent "your side" because of the real-life tragedies that came from similar incidents the game imitates, then don't leave out "the other side".
Okay, so British soldiers have died and British families have suffered for it. Maybe you'll even argue the same point for soldier's and families from the same side of the war (say, Americans for example), but what about the soldiers and families of the "enemy"? Does the pain of the sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, etc not count when it's not the "home team" taking the hits? I guess every one of the soldiers/rebels that have died at the hands of a Brit, or an American, or an Australian are just pure evil scum that deserve no sympathy and are probably barely human, right?
While I disagree with their basic "think of the children!"-like stance, if they're going to take it, then try not to such a small minded nationalist while you're at it.
The argument when it comes to movies versus games is that movies are a passive medium, in which you receive the story as an impartial bystander, while games require you to become actively involved in the events and roleplay as those characters, becoming responsible for their actions and taking on their motivations as your own. A movie director can try and sway you with his portrayal of certain sides in a war, but you're not obliged to partake in his bias to the same extent that you are when adopting the roles defined by a videogame.
My argument for that is that the majority of gamers seem to pay little to no attention to any real-life moral issues when playing a game. They're just playing a game. One moment you're on team A attacking team B, the next you're on team B attacking team A. I rarely hear people mention much difference between the two unless it's purely gaming reasons (this team has better weapons, stages, etc).
And that if it's going to have any kind of affect on someone, it's an opportunity to educate. It seems so many people are quick to think that understanding or humanizing enemies is a bad thing. So many would rather think that all Nazis were evil people for example, but games can give you a chance to live part of a random Nazi's life and see that maybe he wasn't all that much different than you - just caught in a different situation.
I guess that's a huge reason why they have such an issues with this. They don't want people to feel sympathetic to the Taliban and risk having them turn against "the good guys" in one way or another. The truth is that most people that play the game probably won't give it a second thought, many of them will probably still have whatever opinion they have for the Taliban after it that they had going into it, and the few that will be affected are no different than the few that might be affected after reading a book or watching a movie or having a particularly intense dream.
I guess my biggest problem with all of this is just the knee-jerk reaction these people have towards doing anything but villainizing the things they don't like.